Instant Niche Systems - Volume 2: Relationship Niche Auto Responder Email Campaign RELATIONSHIP NICHES Email #1 -------- Relationships work best when we work at them. How do you plan to keep that flame alive? Showing your love is very important in maintaining a successful relationship. It really is the little things that count. Take time to do the special, above and beyond things that you know they love. Here are a few ideas to get you started. Stop on the way home and buy your sweetie a favorite food or better yet dinner from your favorite take out place. Send a hand-written love note in the mail. Give a sincere compliment to your partner every day. Warm up a towel in the dryer while your partner is showering and watch how that heats things up between the two of you. No gesture is too small to communicate that you really love your partner. Sometimes it is those very things that keep the flame buring bright. Come up with your own top ten list of things to keep the romance alive. It isn’t enough to have the list, so put them into action and see what happens! A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. ~Mignon McLaughlin Deal of the Week Your affiliate link here Until next time, NAME Email #2 -------- I trust you are having a great week. When it comes to relationships, it is so easy to take a good thing for granted. We think things will always be the same. Everything is subject to change including the dynamics of your relationship. Although this is true, there are some pro-active things you can do to keep your lover happy and satisfied. Letting your partner know how much you care can be both rewarding and fun. Think of all the places you could leave them a love note. How about in their lunch bag, under their pillow, on the mirror in the bathroom or on the steering wheel of their car. It only takes a moment or two to jot down an “I Love You more today than ever before” and give it to them. Be creative - the feeling you have when you place the note in just the right spot, will be shared by your partner when they read it. Little notes of love and care set the tone for expectation and anticipation for when you are together. The emotional connection made by this simple gesture will keep your mate coming back for more! A hundred hearts would be too few To carry all my love for you. ~Author Unknown Deal of the Week Your affiliate link here. What’s on your note? NAME Email #3 -------- Remember when you first met your mate? The rush you felt at the very thought of your special someone. Did you sit and plan your next meeting, down to the very smallest detail? If you put that same intensity and effort into your relationship everyday, it will pay big dividends. Nothing says, “I Love You” better than doing something special. If you partner loves surprises, plan a day out at the spa or a picnic in the park. If they like to know what is coming up, plan a get-away or a special date together. By planning a special time with your mate, you are saying there is no one in the world I would rather be with than you. That communication adds to the stability and longevity of your relationship - and it is a lot of fun! Life can be so full of stress and serious issues. Take a few minutes to throw off the cares and just enjoy the two of you - you will want to make it a regular part of your relationship. Sometimes we need a reminder of just why we chose to spend the rest of our lives with this individual. Love is a symbol of eternity. It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end. ~Author Unknown Deal of the Week Your affiliate link here. Seize the moment! NAME Email #4 -------- Everyone has times of stress in their relationship. Sickness, family issues or finances can take their toll on even the strongest of bonds. It is especially important during these times to limit the expectations you place on your mate. THere is nothing more exhausting than coming home and feeling the pressure to perform for someone else. Take time to talk about your feelings. Even expressing anger and frustration can be helpful - just to clear the slate and off-load emotions. Set reasonable priorities and work together to get through the tough spots. Although difficult times can be hard on a relationship, they are also the times that we learn to love each other on new levels and appreciate our mate even more. Determine that the stressful time will be a growth time and keep your focus on the end game. It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves. ~John Bulwer Deal of the Week Your affiliate link here. Keep the flame bright, NAME Email #5 -------- How is your week? I trust you are doing well. Let’s face it -life is busy. There is always something or someone pulling us in their direction. It is easy to get caught up in our own thing and drift apart from our mate. How can you keep the team working together and not living in the same house but going in opposite directions? THis too takes some work. We all have our individual goals and dreams - those things that bring us fulfillment and there is nothing wrong with that. The trouble comes into the relationship when we consistantly choose our way and our life over our mates. There is a reason why you and your significant other got together in the first place - common goals and vision. On a regular basis revisit those areas of common desire and work toward accomplishing those goals. Plan a little time each week to work on those things. If you enjoy golfing - set up a tee time every few weeks. It you love going to museums or cultural events, make a point of going every few months. Whatever you and your mate enjoy doing together - make the time to do those things. Spending those few hours can strengthen your relationship and add that spark to keep the flame burning hot! Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupery Deal of the Week Your affiliate link here. Time waits for no one; make the most of it! NAME Email #6 -------- No one said that relationships were easy. How are you doing this week? What was the best thing to happen in your life this week? You have heard it said that communication isn’t what you say- it is what the other person hears. The same is true in your relationship with your mate. The area of successful, heart to heart communication can mean the difference between a so-so relationship and one that is growing and meaningful. Communication isn’t just about what you have to say. Listening is one of the greatest skills we can ever learn. It isn’t just hearing the words someone is speaking, it is about giving our attention to them while they are talking. It is about turning and looking into their eyes and engaging your mind, will and emotions on them for the time that they are sharing with you. By purposing to focus and listen you can improve the lines of communication between you and your partner. If you will practice the art of listening, you will find your communication much more meaningful and productive. You and your mate will be able to connect more quickly and more intimately. If you are looking to increase the level of intimacy in your relationship try listening. It really works. The most beautiful view is the one I share with you. ~Author Unknown Deal of the Week Your affiliate link here. Talk to you soon, NAME Email #7 -------- Hello again. I hope you are having a good week. Physical touch is very important to the health and strength of any relationship. I am not just talking about the throes of passion, I am talking about catching intimate moments during otherwise mundane tasks. Scientists can prove the importance and even necessity of physical touch as a means of communicating love. When we touch our mate we are saying that we love and accept them for who they are. Everyone needs a pat on the back or booty! Don’t underestimate the power of that goodbye kiss or goodnight hug. There is an energy released that will help maintain a healthy bond between you and your mate. Here are some creative ways to get in a few extra touches here and there. Hug your partner from behind while they are brusing their teeth. Talk a moment to interrupt their work with a kiss to the forehead or caress to the shoulders. An, “I Love You” is totally appropriate too! Kiss your spouse as often as possible before they leave for work. Did you know that men and women who receive passionsate kisses from their spouses on the way out the door to work are more satisfied and productive at their job? Pucker up honey, here I come! Playing footsies under the table is always a great diversion too, especially at those family gatherings! Just don’t let mom see. Think about some creative ways that you can add touch to your day. You never know where it might lead! For you see, each day I love you more Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow. ~Rosemonde Gerard Deal of the Week Affiliate link here. Snuggle up with your mate tonight! NAME Email #8 -------- How is your week going? I hope your relationship is getting stronger every day. We all live in a world that is full of negative feelings and negative comments coming our way. When you walk in the door at the end of the day it is nice to have a friendly face smiling at you. And even better, one letting you know how wonderful you are. Take time to tell your mate how much you appreciate them. Everyone needs a good dose of “feel goods” everyday. There is so much power that is released in our words. They can inflict harm or infuse with life. Everyone responds to praise and affirmation. It is amazing the motivation that can be generated by positive words. Don’t limit your praise to face to face communication. You can share that with them in a love note. Put one in their shirt pocket, in their lunch, or in their briefcase. Put a little of your perfume or cologne on the note to remind them of you as they read. Leave them an encouraging or hot and heavy voice mail- think about who may be hearing your message if they are at work. If they are leaving on a business trip put a note in their luggage or laptop case. There are many places that we can leave a note that shares our love and passion for our partner. Use your imagination. You never know what a kind word will do to add some spark into your relationship! Love is a symbol of eternity. It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end. ~Author Unknown Deal of the Week Affiliate link here. Write your mate a love note today and reap the benefits tonight! NAME